Remember, YOU have what it takes to achieve any goal that you set for yourself. Try not to rely on others so much. The power to change is inside of you. Build a support group inside of yourself with positive statements and remember them when your are feeling defeated. Call on them, remind yourself over and over that you can and I promise you will achieve success. Sometimes we rely on others to much and we have to remember that ultimately we are responsible for our own actions. At times we are alone in this battle to achieve success. So believe in yourself and don't let the doubts that eat you up inside win. Control your emotions because sometimes you are all that you can count on. Day by day, meal by meal, make it count and win!